It took a global pandemic for me to realise how much I needed daily routines to help me reduce stress, create stability, and set myself up for success.
Routines ground us in times of certainty, free us from the burden of making small unimportant decisions, and free our minds to focus on what really matters.
I try to bookend the day with some simple intentional practices that improve my sleep, boost productivity, and enhance my overall wellbeing.
This version is from August 2025. I’ll try to keep this page updated as life changes.
Beds designed by Charles Rennie Mackintosh. Not sure I could sleep in so many stripes.
The evening routine
A good morning starts with a good night. Here’s what I do:
20:30 Help my son brush his teeth and get ready for bed
21:30 Dim the lights just a little to remind my brain it’s bedtime. I have a few Echo routines to make this easier.
22:00 My phone and laptop kick me out of most apps using Downtime. I sometimes buy myself an extra 15 minutes to finish something but I like being kicked out again until I get the message and step away from the device.
22:15 Do a quick mental scan for anything I’m still thinking about. I have a note called “Tomorrow” on my phone where I add anything that needs dealing with…tomorrow. This helps my brain to let go overnight.
22:30 Take a quick shower to clean the body, relax the mind, and lower my core temperature.
Open the bedroom window a little
Put on comfy pyjamas
Play some “dreamy” music – lately I’ve been enjoying Nala Sinephro
These routines are slightly aspirational and things don’t always go to plan but I find it helpful to have them written down for reference when things go sideways.
Habits
A routine is a kind of habit. Good habits lead to good results. When I need more accountability to create or re-instate good habits, I use the “Don’t break the chain” technique with a physical wall chart like this:
The end of the month
Having it somewhere visible reminds me to do these things and gives me a little dopamine boost when I look at it.